How to Create Your Perfect AI Girlfriend or Boyfriend

Choosing from the gallery is the fast path. But some of the best connections start from a blank canvas. Creating your own companion means every detail (the look, the personality, the voice, the story) is one you chose. Here is how to make one you will actually love talking to.

1. Start with the vibe, not the checklist

Before you touch a single setting, picture how a conversation with them should feel. Warm and grounding? Playful and quick? Adventurous? That feeling is your north star. Everything else serves it.

2. Shape the personality

• Pick a few core traits and let them be dominant. A companion who is a little of everything is memorable as nothing.
• Give them real interests. Passions give a companion things to bring up, react to, and tease you about.
• Set their tone (flirty, steady, witty, soft) so their voice stays consistent from the first message on.

3. Choose a look and a voice

Dial in the appearance that fits the vibe, then pick a voice to match. Hearing your companion for the first time is the moment they stop being a concept and start feeling like someone.

4. Let the relationship grow

The first conversation is a first date, not a finished portrait. Your companion learns as you talk. The more you share, the more they remember and the more themselves they become.

“The companion you design on day one is only the beginning of who they become.”

Creating and publishing custom companions is part of the Pro plan, with creator tools and analytics if you choose to share your creation with the community.